Men present difficulties in having friends without too much intentions

Is expected Coahuilenses In psychology They agree with it This is common That is, for different situations, To menIt costs them Create friendly relationships with women.

Las Psychologists Carla Waldus GarciaOvarian Former Director of the Psychology Faculty of Kohuila’s Autonomous UniversityAnd sExolock Lucia RodriguexThey point out, although this is an event that often occurs in men, It is common to be common People are struggling to create friendly relationships with the kind of attracting them.

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“In general, there is difficulty in establishing friendly relationships when there is a synchronization based on sexual orientation, that is, if both are sexually sexually or gays, it is sometimes complicated to establish friendship, especially in the case of men, especially in the case of men, in the case of men.”Waldez, a researcher of UADEC.

However explained Many psychological factors playStable Continuous communication, communication and confidence A person by this It concludes by feeling physical or sexual attraction For a friendship.

Generally it is considered the most common in men because they are because they are Take the first step in the courtsy or close, Many women can achieve.

“From psychology, for example, we know something called probane effect. This is the physical intimacy of two people. So I am very close to one another, that is, I spend more time with this person. I have more familiarity with this person. There will be many things that will increase the issue of love ” The psychologist pointed out.

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For his part, the therapist Lucia Rodriguez commented that he was common Finding men who say “both are not jokes” cannot have a friendly relationship with a womanEspecially when they are in a couple of relationships.

“Yes. Once a relationship is forbidden, there is a tendency to consider people in the quotes, while maintaining friendship with people who can bring them up,” Rodricks, educational sex expert.

If it is not sexually or vulnerable they do not see the value

Both experts admitted that it was common to find circumstances There is no value to associate with women if a man does not receive sexual or vulnerable reward.

Rodriguez pointed that he was a Culture In which man is taught SexualitySo there are problems with positioning themselves by another part.

“There are social and culturally emotional relationships, not all, but the majority. This part of maintaining deep contacts with other emotional people is to have a person to trust and talk about deep or emotional things. From this inconvenience, I am the only one I am involved in the intention to appear ‘from this difficulty. I am looking for a relationship or ending in a sexual relationship.Said the sex expert.

For his part, Garcia Valdez described this situation for a man “Small adaptation”Because you do not learn to maintain a relationship even if expectations are not met.

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“When a person has a satisfactory relationship that creates well -being, I talk about friendly relationships, and then do not only concept on this plane of friendship, but I don’t want to have a romantic, loving, court relationship, and then I stay without communication.

“That is, you are no longer my partner. You are no longer my girlfriend, but I will no longer have your company, I will no longer have fun, I will have no pleasure, I will no longer have a relationship or that support, hope or close network”The psychologist explained.

This skill for embrace is a feature that men and women have to work because he explained because he explained Humans have this ability to adjust.

Seek help if once detected

Waldez Garcia commented If a person finds that he could not have friendly relationships Without other sex or impact purposes, it is convenient Seek professional help, Especially if this is the case that is repeated.

“If this is a proper one, this is something that has brought me some kind of difficulties, friction and problems, it is worth looking for someone who can help me see what my beliefs about this type of contacts are.

“Many times men say that they can re -confirm their ego and re -confirm their self -esteem, so sometimes we need to seek this professional help in the case of men to learn to live with these new male men, and the matter of women who continue to love and their hearts are breaking up with close friends. The kind of psychology can benefit from the treatment, ” Valdez pointed.

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For his part, Rodrigas said it was Norm is fantasy or wanted to a close person, Although it is important to be honest Ally As for the intentions of searching.

“It is not about punishing it or seeing it negatively, not to feel a erotic desire for the other person, but because of the desire to arise, we are completely free to imagine what we want. But if I have that experience, if you continue to have that experience, you have a relationship with that person I think it is important to review friendly.

“To be super honest in the most important things. How do you feel that person. If you are using the friendship to achieve a second love or sexual pair, I think it is valid because it arises, but be completely honest with the other person to choose whether or not the connection in that way It is the only healthy way to make a link I think ” Rodriguez finished.